Autistic Licence

S2 E20: How Disappointing...

Trigger warning: This episode includes references to neglect and developmental trauma which some listeners may find upsetting.

It's been a while since we recorded together!

In this episode we expand on our discussion about grief. Leo reflects on the loss of Woody, three months on. We then move into exploring other feelings such as disappointment and pride. We speak about the conditional meanings of these feelings in relation to other people.

We contrast this with the idea of unconditional love and acceptance and wonder about how this might feel and the significance of it, particularly in light of being autistic.

Molly has been at the vet's and joins us for the last 10 minutes. 🐕

We welcome your comments and feedback as always; get in touch at autisticlicence@gmail.com 💛🧡

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S2 E19: Woody

Trigger warning for mention of death, loss and grief. If you have particular sensitivities around these subjects, please consider carefully whether and / or when you might listen to this episode.

Leo's dog, Woody, died just before Christmas. 

This episode was recorded in December and the "previous" episode we mention at the beginning was "Furry Friends & Existentialism".

We speak about our experiences of bereavement and grief. We talk about navigating the end of life and expand this to speak about other endings, planned and otherwise.  

Leo shares some treasured memories of his unique connection with Woody. We wonder about specific aspects of grief from (our) Autistic perspectives, bringing in differences in attunement, attachment and communication.

Your comments and feedback are always most welcome.

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S2 E18: Neuroqueering Self Care & Identity Markers

This is a short chat we had following our guest conversation with Elisabeth.

In it we further develop our thoughts and reflections about self compassion. We also contemplate our identities within the queer community, recognising that we have much more personal "work" to do in this area. 

Obviously it's vulnerable to put something like this out into the world ... however we do so for two reasons. Firstly, we want to honour how inspirational we found our conversation with Elisabeth and secondly, we wonder whether other people might be thinking in similar ways and feel less alone by hearing us.

Your comments and feedback are always most welcome. 💛🧡 

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S2 E17: Elisabeth - A Lived Experience Of Difference

We have a treat for you today - our guest conversation with Elisabeth. 💛🧡

Elisabeth shares her story generously and insightfully. We speak about late diagnosis and the idea of a second adolescence. We contrast medicalised perspectives with the neurodiversity paradigm, for example in navigating group contexts.   

We explore the intersectionality of queer and neurodivergent communities. We also discuss "coming out" and parallels between the neurodiversity movement and the LGBTQIA+ movement in the 80s and 90s. We speak of difference, stigma and making sense of our lived experiences in an ever changing landscape.

We end with discussing the significance of justice for us, on a micro and a macro scale.

We loved engaging with Elisabeth and were so intrigued that we continued the conversation after our call ended (to be released soon!)

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S2 E16: Catherine - Autistic Identity

In this episode we meet Catherine, one of our listeners from the USA. Catherine shares with us about her deep dive into autistic identity.

We discuss some of our experiences throughout our life spans relating to others in education and group settings. We notice ways in which we adapted that don't feel so necessary any longer.

Catherine also comes up with the phrase "social dyspraxia" which we agree is a wonderful descriptor and summary of much of our exploration.

The conversation ends with some beautiful autistic "show and tell" between Leo and Catherine.

We hope you enjoy and welcome your feedback. 💛🧡

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S2 E15: Daniel - Me, Myself and AI

In this episode we speak with Daniel, one of our listeners who responded to our invitation to join us for a guest conversation.

We speak about Daniel's ongoing process of coming to know himself as autistic. We then branch into discussing therapy with AuDHD people, including an exploration of the role artificial intelligence (AI) might play in this.

Daniel introduces us to his concept of "Grand Cycles" and does a fantastic job of describing aphantasia from the inside out.

We absolutely loved meeting Daniel.

Daniel is happy to be contacted at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielzp/

We hope you enjoy and welcome your feedback. 💛🧡

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S2 E14: Mid Life Musings

In this episode we reflect on the new calendar year and whether this has significance for us.

We then open up a long discussion about the process of "middle age". Leo shares some of his identity shifts and pillars which have become clearer and more robust over the past decade.

Siana reflects on the significance of readiness and of having a template of sorts which has enabled her to enter and navigate this stage of life in a different way.

We speak about themes of hope, expectation, change and growth, and weave in some therapeutic insights along the way.

We hope you enjoy this episode and, as always, your comments and reflections are welcome at autisticlicence@gmail.com 🧡💛

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S2 E13: Festive Friends & Seasonal Traditions

Cadbury has discontinued Festive Friends biscuits 😭 We speak about the effects of product changes for autistic people and  return to the topic of sensitivities and allergies.

Leo reflects on the complex interplay he's noticing between ADHD meds, eating / appetite, medical history / considerations and sensory sensitivities.

We move on to talking about aspects of this time of year which we enjoy. We recognise the diversity of our listeners' cultural contexts and we are also mindful of how challenging Christmas can be for many. We wish you all moments of peace and connection in ways that are meaningful for you. 

Thank you so much for all your support in 2024 and we'll speak to you on the other side 💛🧡

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